An emotional story that follows Bethie and Jo throughout their lives. It highlights many important moments in history, such as the Civil Rights movement, the free love of the 60s, and several women's rights movements.  Mrs. Everything By Jennifer Weiner #fiction, #reading, #books to read, #books

Mrs. Everything

By Jennifer Weiner

Reviewed by- Linda (July 2019)

Review:

If you're looking for a book that has lots of family drama and some tough issues to ponder, you may want to give this one a try. It's a saga that spans decades, and it's thought-provoking and emotional as it follows the lives of two sisters, who are very different from each other. Sexual abuse, sexual orientation, race, and the good and bad of the free-love of the sixties are all topics covered in this story. Another strong theme is forgiveness, of oneself and others as well as choices, the hard ones that aren't always easy to make. The author showed how far women have come and also the beauty of being free to choose who you love and who you want to be. This is a beautify story about women; sisters, mothers, friends, and lovers. Recommend.

Book Club Talking Points:

This is one of those books where the characters are relatable, and the issues they deal with are tough and thought-provoking. It takes the reader on a journey through the decades and deals with such important issues as civil rights, women's rights, sexual abuse, sexual orientation, race, and a lot more. Great book club choice.
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*Discussion Questions



1. Jo and Bethie are very different people. But in what ways do you find them similar? Do their similarities outweigh their differences? How do their similarities cause problems in their relationship?

2. Forgiveness, of others and of the characters' own selves, is an important theme in the novel. Discuss how the characters work through their conflicts and how they do or do not resolve the issues.

3. Compare and contrast how Jo and Bethie are influenced by their mother. Is there a defining element of their relationship with their mother? How does it weave its way into the sisters' lives?

4. Mrs. Everything spans half of the twentieth century and the early part of the twenty-first. What period details make you feel immersed in each decade? Were there any details that you remembered from your own past? Were there details about life in earlier decades that surprised you? What effect did this have on your reading experience?

5. In Mrs. Everything, Jennifer Weiner has created many memorable secondary characters, from Mrs. Kaufman to Lila to Jo's and Bethie's partners and beyond. Did you have a favorite? What qualities made them come alive for you?

6. Were you ever frustrated by the choices Jo and Bethie made? Did you empathize with their choices, despite feeling frustrated?

7. Literature is full of sisters with complex relationships. Do Jo and Bethie remind you of other favorite sister duos? What is it about the sister relationship that captivates us as readers?

8. What draws Jo and Shelley together? After they've reunited, what keeps them together?

9. What do Bethie and Harold learn from each other throughout their relationship?

10. Because Mrs. Everything takes places over several decades, it touches on many political and social movements. Did you learn anything about American history while reading? Was there a cause or issue that particularly interested you?

11. When Lila visits Bethie for the summer, they have a heart-to-heart about the pressure Lila feels from her mother to be special and achieve great things. Bethie tells Lila that it comes from the lack of options the sisters had growing up in a different era: "Some girls did grow up and became doctors and lawyers and school principals. . . . A few girls did grow up and do things, and got those jobs, but for the rest of us, we were told that the most important thing was to be married, and be a mother. . . . She just doesn't want that to be the only choice you have" (page 392). Though Lila does have more opportunities available to her than her mother and aunt did, she (and her generation) faces new challenges. Did you relate to Lila's concerns?

12. How does faith-both religious and in a more general sense-inform Jo and Bethie? What does faith mean to the sisters?

(Discussion Questions by Publisher)


Book Summary
Do we change or does the world change us?

Jo and Bethie Kaufman were born into a world full of promise.

Growing up in 1950s Detroit, they live in a perfect "Dick and Jane" house, where their roles in the family are clearly defined. Jo is the tomboy, the bookish rebel with a passion to make the world more fair; Bethie is the pretty, feminine good girl, a would-be star who enjoys the power her beauty confers and dreams of a traditional life.

But the truth ends up looking different from what the girls imagined. Jo and Bethie survive traumas and tragedies. As their lives unfold against the background of free love and Vietnam, Woodstock and women's lib, Bethie becomes an adventure-loving wild child who dives headlong into the counterculture and is up for anything (except settling down). Meanwhile, Jo becomes a proper young mother in Connecticut, a witness to the changing world instead of a participant. Neither woman inhabits the world she dreams of, nor has a life that feels authentic or brings her joy. Is it too late for the women to finally stake a claim on happily ever after?

In her most ambitious novel yet, Jennifer Weiner tells a story of two sisters who, with their different dreams and different paths, offer answers to the question: How should a woman be in the world?
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