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Things I Wish I Told My Mother

by Susan Patterson and Susan Dilallo
 This heartfelt story about a mother and daughter is engaging and immersive. The characters are well-developed, making the reader laugh and cry throughout this quick, easy read. The story was engaging, and the bond between mother and daughter was heartwarming. Things I Wish I Told My Mother by Susan Patterson and Susan Dilallo #BestContemporaryFiction, #whattoreadnext,#bookclub, #womensfiction, #reading, #BooksToRead, #bookclub, #reading, #books, #thingsIWishIToldMyMother, #susanpatterson, #jamesPatterson, #Susandilallo

Discussion Questions


1. THINGS I WISH I TOLD MY MOTHER delves into the complex nature of secrets between mothers and daughters. Reflecting on the novel, what are some secrets that you have always wanted to share with your mother or daughter? How do these secrets shape your relationship and communication with each other?

2. Liz and Laurie's relationship in the novel showcases both similarities and differences that may resonate with your own relationships. In what ways do you see your own relationships reflected in Liz and Laurie's dynamic? How are you similar or different from them? Do you have any regrets when it comes to your relationships with your mother or daughter?

3. If you could embark on a dream vacation with your mother or daughter, anywhere in the world, where would you choose to go? Describe the destination and explain why it holds significance for you and your relationship.

4. Creating a mother-daughter bucket list can be a meaningful way to bond and create cherished memories. What are some items that would be on your mother-daughter bucket list? Share your ideas and discuss why these activities or experiences are important to you both.

5. The relationship between Lauren and Dr. Liz in Things I Wish I Told My Mother is portrayed as complex and multifaceted. How do their differing personalities, careers, and approaches to life affect their relationship? How do their perceptions of each other change throughout the book, and what moments or events contribute to these shifts?

6. In the novel, Lauren takes her mother on a trip to Paris and Norway as a way to reconnect and bridge the gap between them. How does travel serve as a metaphor for their relationship? How does the change in environment and experiences they share together impact their dynamics and bring their secrets and emotions to the surface?

7. Lauren and Dr. Liz have contrasting lifestyles and priorities, with Lauren being adventurous and low maintenance, while Dr. Liz is high maintenance and focused on her career. How do these differences influence their perspectives on life, love, and happiness? How do their choices and actions reflect their individual values and desires?

8. Secrets play a significant role in the story, with both Lauren and Dr. Liz harboring undisclosed truths from each other. How do these secrets affect their relationship and interactions? Do you believe that honesty is always the best policy in parent-child relationships, or are there situations where keeping secrets may be justified?

9. Throughout the book, there are moments of tension and conflict between Lauren and Dr. Liz, as well as moments of closeness and understanding. How do these emotional fluctuations impact their journey of self-discovery and healing? What lessons can be learned from their struggles and triumphs in navigating their complicated relationship?

10. The theme of self-discovery is prominent in the novel, as Lauren and Dr. Liz confront their past, confront their fears, and reveal their true selves to each other. How does self-discovery contribute to their growth as individuals and as a mother-daughter duo? What obstacles do they face in understanding themselves and each other better?

11. The twist at the end of the novel adds a surprising element to the story. How did it change your perception of the characters and their relationship? Did it alter your interpretation of the events that occurred throughout the book? Discuss the impact of the twist on your overall understanding of the story and its themes.

12. The novel touches upon the themes of love, forgiveness, and acceptance. How do these themes manifest in the relationship between Lauren and Dr. Liz? How do they navigate past mistakes, regrets, and misunderstandings to ultimately find understanding and resolution? Discuss the significance of these themes in the context of their mother-daughter relationship.

13.The book portrays a range of emotions, from laughter to tears, and explores the intricacies of human connections. Which moments or scenes resonated with you the most emotionally, and why? How did the authors effectively convey these emotions through their writing? Discuss the impact of the emotional journey of the characters on your own emotions as a reader.

14.Reflecting on your own relationships with your mother, daughter, or other significant figures in your life, what similarities and differences do you see between your dynamics and those of Lauren and Dr. Liz? How has reading Things I Wish I Told My Mother affected your perspective on your own relationships and the complexities of parent-child dynamics?

15. Using just one word, describe your mother or daughter and explain why you chose that particular word. How does that word encapsulate your perception of her and your relationship with her? together and how it has shaped your relationship into what it is today.

16. Reflecting on the passage of time, how has your relationship with your mother or daughter evolved over the years? Discuss the changes, challenges, and growth that you have experienced together and how it has shaped your relationship into what it is today.

17. Every mother-daughter relationship has its unique characteristics. What do you consider to be the best and worst aspects of your mother-daughter relationship? How do these characteristics impact your interactions and communication with each other?

18. The idea of losing a loved one can be heart-wrenching. If you were to lose your mother today and had the opportunity to speak with her one last time, what would you say to her? Reflect on the emotions, thoughts, and words that would be important for you to express.

19. Share a favorite mother-daughter memory, such as a recipe you enjoy cooking together, a cherished photo, a special place you like to visit, a song that holds significance, or an activity you love doing together. Discuss why these memories are meaningful to you and how they have strengthened your bond.

20. Mothers play a significant role in shaping their daughters, and daughters often have valuable lessons to teach their mothers as well. Reflect on the most important thing your mother has taught you and how it has influenced your life. Mothers, share what you have learned from your daughters and how it has impacted your perspective and experiences.
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