The Wives of Henry Oades

Today, this is a unique tale, made all the more intriguing because it is based on an actual court case. Book clubs, in particular, should enjoy this book, as it presents numerous thought-provoking legal and moral discussion points. Henry, thinking his wife is dead, marries another woman, only to discover his first wife is very much alive.

It's told from the perspective of the wives in a marvelous writing style that allows the story to flow and fosters emotional connections to the characters. I was particularly enamored of the relationship that developed between the wives. I was equally disappointed in the community's reaction to this unusual and unexpected situation.

Although I would have liked more detail on the Maori tribe and the thoughts and feelings of Henry, the book pulled me in emotionally, and it is a fantastic debut novel. I recommend this book to those who enjoy historical fiction or anyone who appreciates a compelling story about the resilience of the human spirit.

The Wives of Henry Oades is based on a true and unusual court case from the 19th century. After believing his wife and children were killed by Maori tribesmen, Henry Oades remarries in California. Years later, his first wife and children escape captivity and find him living with his second family.

This shocking twist launches a moral and legal dilemma that unfolds through the voices of the two wives. As society condemns them, Margaret and Nancy are forced to define family for themselves in a world that sees them only through the lens of scandal.

1. On the voyage to New Zealand, Mrs. Randolph cares for Margaret as she miscarries. Can bonds between women form in hours?

2. Why do you think Mr. Oades misidentified Mim Bell as his wife?

3. Have expectations of Christianity changed since the time of Margaret and Nancy?

4. What kept Margaret strong in captivity? Was Henry justified in remarrying?

5. What was the turning point for Henry's acceptance of his family's loss?

6. Why were Margaret and her children treated coldly on their return?

7. Are the marriages in this story more about survival or love?

8. When do Margaret and Nancy begin to form a connection?

9. Which wife endured the most hardship? Who did you empathize with more?

10. What could have been a better solution for this family-then or now?

11. Are there modern equivalents to the Daughters of Decency?

12. How does the Maori premonition at the start relate to the story?

13. What is the main theme of this novel? Were you surprised by the ending?