Finding Grace

1) Honor narrates parts of the story after her death. How did this narrative affect your sympathy for Tom or Grace?

2) Tom is grief-stricken over Honor and Chloe's death. How does that shape his decisions?

3) Grace enters Tom's life as the egg donor for his son. Do you think it matters that Grace's role was once anonymous? How does that connection complicate their relationship?

4) When Grace learns the truth about her connection to Tom and Henry, how does betrayal and forgiveness play out? Which moment of confrontation or revelation struck you hardest?

5) Honor desperately wants another child. How does this create tension in her marriage with Tom?

6) Which moment best revealed Tom's strengths or flaws as a father?

7) Tom is caught between his past with Honor and building a new life with Grace. Was there a moment you rooted for him? A moment you felt he failed?

8) Honor sees much of Tom's emotional life from the afterlife. How does her perspective affect the story?

9) Grace carries her own grief; she has lost her husband. How did that element of her past help or hinder her relationship with Tom and Henry?

10) At the end of the novel, how do you think Honor, were she alive, would feel about Grace in Tom's life? And how do you imagine Tom and Grace might remember Honor as they move forward?